Harper

“I prefer a daytime catch-up somewhere familiar for a first introduction, with curiosity and questions that leave room for an answer. A good conversation for me might start with outdoor time and ways to switch off; I would rather find a shared topic than trade a list of expectations. My pace is about a few thoughtful messages instead of a long interview. What matters at the end is letting a first meeting be just a first meeting, so that interest can be mutual rather than assumed.”