Scarlett3

“I prefer a brief first date before planning anything longer for a first introduction, with a conversation that makes space for different opinions. A good conversation for me might start with books and the stories people return to; I would rather find a shared topic than trade a list of expectations. My pace is about keeping the first conversation short and seeing whether it flows. What matters at the end is being comfortable saying that the fit is not right, so that interest can be mutual rather than assumed.”