Tessa4

“I prefer a weekend afternoon coffee for a first introduction, with a little humour without pressure to perform. A good conversation for me might start with humour and the things that make someone laugh; I would rather find a shared topic than trade a list of expectations. My pace is about keeping the first conversation short and seeing whether it flows. What matters at the end is being clear about an existing relationship if that affects consent, so that interest can be mutual rather than assumed.”